More Than Just “Mabuhay”
Moving to the Philippines is more than great food, low cost of living, and beach escapes. The real key to enjoying your stay? Learning how not to stand out… for the wrong reasons. Whether you're living in a condo, talking to vendors, or just walking the streets of Makati or BGC, there are little cultural quirks that make a big difference.
1. Use “Po” and Smile — It Goes a Long Way
Filipinos are warm and polite by nature. Just a simple “po” or “opo” (used to show respect, especially to elders or authority) instantly changes how locals see you — even if your Tagalog is basic. Smiling and being friendly can go further than perfect grammar.
Remove your shoes before entering someone’s home. Learn a few key Tagalog words like “konti lang” (just a little), and you’ll earn more goodwill than you expect.
2. Don’t Be Sarcastic — It Doesn’t Translate
One of the most common culture clashes? Sarcasm. What’s funny back home might come off as rude or offensive here.
Foreigners often make dry, sarcastic jokes at cashiers or staff — only to be met with awkward silence. Most Filipinos don’t process sarcasm the same way Americans do, and it can easily be misinterpreted as arrogance.
Keep your humor light and direct. Think more dad jokes, less The Office.
3. How to Act Around Guards, Staff, and Locals
Respect and friendliness go hand in hand here. If you’re staying long-term in a condo:
- Say hi to the guards, especially if you see them daily. A slight bow or head nod works.
- Offer small pasalubong (souvenirs) when you return from trips.
- Surprise the staff with snacks or pizza once in a while — it builds relationships fast.
In public, avoid being loud or demanding. Filipinos are polite by default, but shouting or asserting yourself too aggressively won’t win you any favors.
4. When You’re Being Overcharged, Here’s What to Do
Yes, dual pricing happens. But instead of snapping, handle it like this:
- Know the fair price before you go.
- If you spot a scammy move, call it out publicly — but without being rude.
You’ll often find locals stepping in to back you up if they see you being fair. Just don’t get condescending. Keep your tone level and firm.
5. How to Actually Build Connections With Locals
Start with consistency. Ask people about their day. Listen to their stories.
In condos like Century Spire, I’ve built friendships with staff and vendors just by talking to them regularly. I’ve asked about their backgrounds, dreams, and college life — simple things that show you care.
Pro Tip:
Even if you’re not interested in buying from the same street vendor every day, buy some peanuts or snacks now and then. They’ll remember your face.
6. What Not to Say or Do
Avoid these topics unless you know the person well:
- Politics
- Religion
- Heavy social commentary
And body language matters here. Don’t hover over someone or use your physical size to intimidate. That kind of presence doesn’t land well — it feels overbearing, not assertive.
ManilaNests Tip
Whether you're staying for weeks or months, remember: blending in isn’t about hiding who you are — it’s about showing respect for who they are. When you do that, the city opens up to you.
Your Turn
Ever had a cultural mishap in the Philippines — or saw someone else make one? Share your story in the comments or shoot us a message. We’d love to hear it.
